When someone dies, certain practical concerns may need attention in the hours, days, and weeks that follow. These tasks can feel overwhelming, especially when the family is grieving. This page outlines common tasks that may need attention after a death and gives guidance on how to navigate them.
Some responsibilities after a death can only be handled by certain people, such as a Substitute Decision-Maker, executor, or the person legally responsible for the estate. If you are unsure who should manage a particular task, a funeral home, lawyer, or estate professional can guide you.
After a death, pause
In the period immediately after a death, some people choose to spend a few quiet moments with the person who has died before their body is removed. This can provide a meaningful opportunity to say goodbye.
If the death occurs in a hospital, long-term care home, or hospice, staff will often help guide the next steps. If the person previously registered their desire to donate organs or tissues, hospital staff may also discuss whether this is possible and provide next steps.
If the death occurs at home, the process may involve contacting a health care provider to attend and pronounce the death.
Making final arrangements
After a death has been confirmed, health care providers or family members usually contact a funeral home to arrange transportation of the body. The funeral home will help coordinate the final disposition, which is the funeral-industry term to describe what happens to a person’s body after death.
The final disposition may include burial, cremation, donation of the body to science followed by cremation, or other arrangements according to the person’s wishes, cultural traditions, or family preferences.
Planning a funeral or memorial gathering
Many families mark a person’s death with a gathering, ceremony, or ritual. This may include a funeral, wake, memorial service, celebration of life, or another event that reflects the person’s beliefs and values.
Some families hold a funeral or other ceremony shortly after the death, and gather again later for a memorial or celebration of life when more family and friends are able to attend.
Learn more about planning these gatherings.
Settling financial and practical affairs
After a death, loved ones must handle practical matters related to the person’s estate and belongings. These responsibilities are often handled by the executor named in the will or another legally authorized person.
Tasks may include:
- locating the will and beginning the probate process if necessary
- notifying financial institutions and government agencies of the person’s death
- organizing personal belongings and household items
- cancelling or transferring services and subscriptions
- managing social media accounts and other digital services
Some of these tasks may take time and may require legal or financial guidance. Learn more about managing financial matters or digital accounts .
Keeping an eye on security
After a death, families may share information through obituaries, social media posts, or community announcements. While this helps get the news out, it can also reveal personal details. Consider limiting sensitive details such as birth dates, home addresses, or other identifying information.
In the weeks and months that follow, important financial and government documents may continue to arrive by mail. If mail starts to build up – especially if the home is empty – it can present identity and security risks. Arrange for someone to collect the mail or have it redirected.
Taking care of yourself
The days and weeks after a death can bring many emotions, and everyone experiences grief in their own way. Even as practical tasks need attention, moving through them gradually and accepting help can make this time more manageable.
If you’re struggling with feelings after a death, it can help to speak with a trusted friend, family member, counsellor, or a grief support group. Learn more about the grieving process and what you might expect.